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David Pecoraro

David Pecoraro, LMFT

California

LMFT in California - Relationships and Family Concerns

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  • Relationship conflict
  • Addictions work
  • Family of origin

About David

David Pecoraro is an LMFT - Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in California with 37 years of clinical experience. He focuses on relationship problems, addictions, mood concerns, anxiety, and family-of-origin issues. He also works with people dealing with parenting strains, anger, intimacy challenges, and major life changes.

He uses direct, practical work in sessions. That might mean learning clearer ways to handle conflict, practicing communication skills, or mapping how early family roles still affect decisions today. Sessions often include tools from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and the Gottman Method along with psychodynamic ideas about past patterns.

David aims to make therapy understandable. He helps people identify patterns that cause repeated problems and then tests small changes to see what works. He talks with clients about goals and adjusts the plan as those goals shift.

He has long experience helping adults with relationship conflict, addictive behaviors, and mood disorders. That background includes work on divorce and separation, blended family issues, fatherhood concerns, and domestic violence and anger management when those topics are part of a client's story.

In practical terms he offers skills for communicating better, managing impulses, reducing anxiety, and coping with grief or big transitions. He also addresses attachment and codependency patterns that trace back to the family someone grew up with. People who want concrete strategies and insight into old patterns may find this approach helpful.

Therapeutic approaches and how online sessions work

David integrates Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and the Gottman Method alongside psychodynamic thinking. CBT focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and testing new behaviors to reduce anxiety, manage mood, or change addictive patterns. The Gottman Method offers concrete communication and conflict tools aimed at improving how partners handle disagreements. Psychodynamic ideas look at recurring feelings and roles that come from early family relationships and how they shape current choices.

Finding the right mix of these methods is part of the work. The therapist will talk with clients about goals and preferences, then try approaches that fit those goals. That collaborative testing helps refine what feels useful and what to drop.

Confirm the available session formats before booking since the biography does not list specific online options. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy week, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and remove travel time. For example, sessions that do not require video can be simpler when bandwidth is limited, and brief remote meetings can be used for quick strategy reviews between longer appointments. Licensed professionals can adapt exercises and communication skills training for remote sessions to focus on practical change.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesParenting issues

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesBlended family issuesCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessImpulsivityInfidelityJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMood disorders

Therapeutic approaches

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Gottman MethodPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

37+ years

Listed in

California

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does he address?

He works with relationship issues, addictions, anxiety, depression, anger, parenting problems, and family of origin issues among other concerns.

How would you describe his therapeutic style?

He uses a practical, problem-focused style that combines skills work with discussion of past patterns to change current behavior.

How much clinical experience does he have?

He has 37 years of professional experience as a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist.

What credential does he hold and where is he based?

He is an LMFT - Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist licensed in California.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with him?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are fees handled?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What are the steps to begin working together?

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