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Sharon (Shonnie) Brown

Sharon (Shonnie) Brown, LMFT

California

California LMFT - Family and relationships

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  • Attachment-based work
  • CBT and DBT tools
  • Writing exercises

About Sharon

Sharon (Shonnie) Brown is a California licensed marriage and family therapist, LMFT, with 30 years of experience. She works with adults facing stress, anxiety, relationship problems, self-esteem struggles, career questions, ADHD, grief, and family of origin issues. She also addresses parenting, sleep problems, anger, depression, and major life changes.

Shonnie writes plainly and directly in sessions. She draws on client-centered and attachment-based ideas to explore how early family roles and expectations still shape current choices. She uses goal setting, coping skills, mindfulness exercises, and writing prompts when people want concrete tools to practice between meetings.

Her background includes a B.A. from UC Berkeley and an M.A. in counseling psychology from JFK University in Orinda, California. Over three decades she has worked with individuals and couples and led groups on separation, infidelity, co-parenting, and social anxiety. That group work informs how she talks about transitions and communication patterns.

In sessions she can be direct and honest while focusing on practical steps. Common targets are learning to self-soothe, increasing self-compassion, and setting boundaries that reflect current needs rather than old family rules. Writing is sometimes used as a way to process feelings and clarify goals.

Shonnie pays attention to workplace stress, broken friendships, aging concerns, and the fallout from separation and divorce. She encourages small, sustainable changes and works with people who want to understand how their childhood patterns affect present relationships.

Therapeutic approaches used in online sessions

Shonnie blends attachment-based work with cognitive behavioral techniques to help people understand relationship patterns and change unhelpful thinking. Attachment-based methods look at how early family roles and expectations influence closeness, fear of abandonment, and communication, which can help with relationship and family of origin issues. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying and shifting thought patterns and behaviors that maintain anxiety, low self-esteem, or depression.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. She will collaborate with each person to decide which methods fit their goals and preferences. That process may begin with a few sessions to review problems, try different exercises, and agree on practical steps like goal setting or writing assignments.

Confirm the specific session options before booking, as the biography does not list formats. Online sessions can make it easier to fit meetings into a busy day, allow shorter check-ins when helpful, and remove the time spent commuting. These practical benefits can help people maintain continuity of work and practice new skills between appointments.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesADHD

Also works with

Family conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementDepressionCoping with life changesCoaching

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

30+ years

Listed in

California

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she address related to family patterns?

She works with adults on family of origin issues, attachment problems, communication difficulties, and how childhood roles affect current relationships.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her style is direct and practical. She combines client-centered listening with goal setting and concrete coping strategies.

How much experience does she have?

She has 30 years of clinical experience as a licensed marriage and family therapist.

Where is she licensed and based?

She is a California LMFT and practices from California.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

What session formats are available?

Session formats are not specified in the biography. Confirm the current session options before booking.

How are fees and billing handled?

Cost varies with location, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I get started with her?

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