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Bella Lurie

Bella Lurie, LMFT

California

LMFT - grief and intimacy issues

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  • Grief support
  • Attachment patterns
  • Career concerns

About Bella

Bella Lurie is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) in California with six years of clinical experience. She works with adults on grief, intimacy-related issues, self-esteem, career concerns, and ADHD. She also addresses related patterns such as abandonment, attachment issues, blended family dynamics, and communication or control struggles.

Bella uses a language-focused approach that looks at how words and stories shape feelings and behavior. Sessions often examine the roles people learned growing up and how those patterns show up now. Discussions can include the symbols and narratives that influence both waking life and dreams, helping people notice the assumptions that guide their choices.

Her practice draws on positive psychology ideas to broaden how people experience themselves. That can mean experimenting with how language is used in the moment and cultivating more spontaneous ways of speaking. These techniques are offered alongside more familiar therapeutic conversation about relationships, grief, and day-to-day stressors.

Clients can expect an orientation toward understanding patterns from early life and how they affect current relationships and work. Bella helps people name recurring roles and habits, then tests small changes in communication and behavior. Sessions move at a practical pace, focusing on observable shifts rather than abstract theory.

She offers therapy in English, Hebrew, and Russian. Bella works from California and follows California LMFT practice standards. To begin, clients complete a short questionnaire and schedule a first session through the online intake process.

Therapeutic approaches and online sessions

Two consistent strands in Bella's work are examining life narratives and using positive psychology ideas. Looking at life narratives means noticing the recurring roles and phrases people use, then testing small changes in how they speak and act. This kind of work can help with intimacy problems, communication struggles, and patterns rooted in early family life.

Positive psychology techniques here are practical and brief. They aim to widen attention toward strengths and simple behavioral shifts rather than only reviewing past events. These methods can support work on self-esteem, career decisions, and coping with loss by adding concrete practices to talk-based sessions.

Finding the right approach is part of the process. Bella will work with the client to decide which techniques to try based on their concerns, goals, and preferences. That collaboration includes checking in on what helps and adjusting methods as needed.

Session formats are not specified in the provided biography, so confirm current online options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy schedule, allow shorter check-ins when time is limited, or let someone avoid travel on a workday. Ask about available session lengths and settings when arranging the first appointment to match therapy to daily life.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMulticultural concernsPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressSelf-harmSelf-loveSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWorkplace issues

Experience

6+ years

Listed in

California

Languages

English, Hebrew, Russian

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she address?

She works with grief, intimacy-related issues, self-esteem, career questions, and ADHD, plus related topics like abandonment, attachment, and communication problems.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

She focuses on language and everyday stories people tell about themselves, combining discussion of patterns from childhood with practical communication work.

How much clinical experience does she have?

Bella has six years of experience as a practicing clinician.

What are her credentials and where does she practice?

She is an LMFT and practices in California under the CA LMFT designation.

Which languages can sessions be held in?

Sessions are offered in English, Hebrew, and Russian.

Does she work with international clients?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How does the cost of sessions work?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

What steps are required to get started?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session to begin.

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