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Dabney Hayes

Dabney Hayes, LPCC, LPC

North Carolina

LPCC/LPC - Family patterns and anxiety

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  • Family of origin issues
  • Anxiety and stress
  • ACT and CBT methods

About Dabney

Dabney Hayes is an LPCC and LPC practicing in North Carolina with 14 years of experience. She works with adults facing stress, anxiety, depression, addiction, relationship strain, parenting challenges, and family-related patterns. She also supports people managing grief, compassion fatigue, bipolar symptoms, ADHD concerns, and intimacy-related issues.

Dabney writes plainly with adults who see old family roles and expectations repeating in their lives. She describes treatment that looks at how those patterns affect behavior, choices, and relationships now. Sessions focus on practical skills, clearer thinking, and building steadier coping strategies.

Her background includes work in both individual and group settings across a wide range of concerns. Dabney helps people untangle shame, perfectionism, self-criticism, and lingering effects of trauma and abuse. She also addresses adoption and foster care questions, attachment concerns, blended family dynamics, and caregiver stress.

In session she draws on several clinical approaches to match what a person needs. Those methods include Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Attachment-Based Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Dialectical Behavior Therapy. This mix is used to change unhelpful thoughts, manage strong emotions, and practice different ways of relating to others.

Dabney works with adults in English and accepts international clients. Costs vary with location and services use a subscription that can be canceled at any time. To begin, select the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

How her approaches translate to online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice painful thoughts without getting stuck in them and choose actions that reflect their values. It is often used for anxiety, stress, and problems driven by avoidance. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationship patterns influence current bonds and behaviors. It can support people working through family of origin issues and attachment concerns. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying and testing unhelpful thoughts and practicing different behaviors to reduce distress and improve functioning.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work. She will collaborate with each person to figure out which methods fit their goals and preferences. That decision can evolve over time as progress and new needs become clear.

The practical benefits of online work include easier scheduling and fitting sessions into a busy week. Online sessions can make it simpler to have shorter check-ins, avoid travel time, or keep appointments during work breaks. Specific session formats are not listed here, so confirm current options before booking to understand how sessions are delivered and to choose what best fits everyday life.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyEye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

14+ years

Listed in

North Carolina, Florida, Washington, Colorado, California, South Carolina

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she address?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, addiction, relationship and family-related issues, grief, parenting questions, and related concerns such as ADHD and bipolar symptoms.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is practical and person-focused. She uses strategies to shift thinking, manage emotions, and change recurring behavior patterns.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has 14 years of experience providing therapy in individual and group settings across a range of issues.

What credentials and location are listed?

She holds LPCC and LPC credentials and practices in North Carolina.

Which languages and international work are supported?

Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

Session formats are not specified here; please confirm the current session options before booking.

How are costs structured?

Cost varies with location and services use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Begin by selecting the See online therapy options button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and scheduling a first session.

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Dabney HayesLPCC, LPC

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